Episode 67: Two Kid Club | New Dad Gaming

[0:03] [Applause] the adult beverages are poured the kids are asleep welcome to new dad gaming a show about fatherhood gaming and new

[0:13] fathers figuring out their gaming lives my name is trevor and i have a two-year-old and another on the way and i’m jeff i have a six-year-old and a

[0:21] four-year-old so this is the two da two kid only club so uh david didn’t quite make the cut and the

[0:30] that we know of it yeah now the um bit of a conflicting issue her time

[0:38] issue so we have just jeff and myself for this week’s episode but uh yeah actually so that probably just going to rifle through a bunch of two

[0:47] kid questions because that is so close on the horizon it’s terrifying like it’s very close for you a couple months man that’s it summer and that’s

[0:56] it and it’s just there’s no going back nope level one again well level zero oh before we get to just i want to relay one story

[1:06] before we go there so i’ve been speaking about uh the regression that uh my son has been having oh yeah yeah and like but it it’s

[1:15] taken just an entire 180 this week good like his software got upgraded or something entirely different so here’s how this

[1:26] plays out now so before we were having a terrible time getting him to sleep we’re talking 11 o’clock 10 o’clock like 9 30 earliest

[1:34] like yeah going in a few times we have to go in a few times uh woke up in the night wake up wake up early he was just off

[1:41] but you know we during that entire time we were working on his schedule like just trying to be

[1:46] consistent and even if it wasn’t working it’s just like there’s the steps and then he goes to bed like it’s always the same

[1:53] and then last night we’re doing the usual and relatively early call it like 8 30 and we’re just sitting there reading all

[2:02] his books and like book after book after book which is very uh i really i really do enjoy that time it’s great nothing else i get to practice like my voice

[2:10] voices oh no i can’t go over there incredibly fun but anyway reading all these books and all of a sudden he

[2:21] he kind of pushes the book closed and he says like uh up like up up up i’m like like up like on my shoulder and then you

[2:30] go nice says bed bed i’m like you beat him you beat him like he gave in it was just complete

[2:40] like it was stunned silence like i sat there looking at him for a second i’m like are you are you saying bed

[2:48] like you you want to go to bed it’s like bed and then he reaches up and like

[2:54] sure enough like it’s so it’s hit on the shoulder like kind of rock give him like a nice little kind of a rock and like like in two minutes put

[3:01] him into the crib and done he’s got that he’s asked to go to bed it was just like what were you reading like the encyclopedias and

[3:09] you just go forget this yeah it’s the same um i gotta go i have to go to the library or i have to

[3:17] actually forget that like we have tons of books i just i need to refresh what’s in there because like the ones that are in

[3:23] his room we’ve read been reading for like two weeks so like i’m getting sick of it yeah oh yeah but and then he did it again tonight so it

[3:30] wasn’t even just like this one time fluke is he same order of things like it he eventually kind of just pushes away the

[3:36] books and then says like up and like bad dead yeah keep with it man that’s the routine now just bam bam bam yeah i’m just

[3:45] sitting there crying like tears of joy yeah then after that even before that he was eating pasta which again like we would constantly just

[3:55] struggle with his eating which is now past like we’d still like them be you know i don’t know like a vegetable or a meat perhaps but

[4:04] still we’ll take it so that yeah he asked for bed i just could dress throughout the whole episode like that’s

[4:11] that’s enough that’s

[4:18] haven’t been near a video game recently i have nothing to speak about so for yourself how have uh things been with fatherhood and gaming

[4:26] uh pretty good um i guess in fatherhood we did we had a huge uh garage sale over the weekend it was a

[4:34] community garage sale so i have a little story about that um we decided this year to bring the kids

[4:42] because we thought um that we could handle it you know they’re six and four they can handle it so we’re up at six a.m

[4:50] to get to uh hold on set the table okay so you think your six and four-year-old can handle it yeah and

[4:58] then you proceed to wake them up at six in the morning yes so okay there you go they’re good at waking up because they get breakfast they eat

[5:06] all the time so we don’t have eating issues that’s an opportunity for them to eat by the time you wake them up they’re

[5:11] already starving happy is a clam yeah they get to eat this is amazing so they have like we have three rounds of breakfast it’s

[5:18] basically waffle yogurt and like a banana so they have the three things like we get in the car

[5:25] i have it all packed we get set up at this huge like parking lot we do at town hall and all these other vendors are there and people selling their stuff

[5:33] spend an hour getting ready eight o’clock opens up it’s pretty good weather lots of traffic kids are having a good time so far you

[5:42] know granted it’s been two hours um my older son loves to do math so he was taking the money making the change it was good it

[5:51] was like a teachable moment it was awesome and then for some reason if we have a lot of

[5:57] we have a lot of kid toys there right we’re trying to get rid of the sea of plastic that is down in the basement right now

[6:03] so at just one moment out of the blue uh my youngest who’s four just realized that

[6:11] his police car that he never played with is going to be sold and it was just tears just tears and he wanted to have it

[6:21] he didn’t want to let it go we try to convince him that you know the money might maybe we buy a new toy or look at something else or distraction

[6:31] private don’t you like money better son yeah here’s just money just take the money um but for whatever reason he was just

[6:39] stuck on it so we kind of walked him around um seeing everybody else’s stuff and in that meantime because my wife

[6:47] took him out uh i sold the car it’s ghost on go this is one of those traumatic moments that he’ll remember forever i’m sure so

[7:00] when he got back he was gone but i think with that it was gone out of his memory he did not understand that it was

[7:07] sold i guess like because he didn’t see it then my oldest tries to this is where the two kid thing comes in

[7:14] my all this is like oh hey elton we sold your your police and i’m like [ __ ] don’t you say it don’t you say it

[7:24] you sold nothing don’t worry about it so he was gonna talk to him hey hey we’ve sold your police car and what do you think about that and then it would have

[7:31] been tears again but just like just to get at him like it was oh yeah yeah just to hold something over his head right it was just like i know something you don’t

[7:38] know so we didn’t let that pass but the rest of the day they were good um they were up till like nine o’clock at night we

[7:46] went to the park he had a birthday party to go to afterwards at like one o’clock in the afternoon did you buy the gift at the garage sale we should have we

[7:54] totally should have but you know they’re gonna get ready in like a couple months which yeah got you this police car here

[8:00] here’s this police car there’s no receipt there’s no gift receipt i’m sorry got a good deal because it’s scratched

[8:05] and yeah it has a name written on the bottom don’t show it to my family it didn’t come from us this is from grandma but don’t worry about it just

[8:14] take it the batteries are dead in it i don’t know i don’t know why i don’t know how to

[8:19] open it that’s my favorite some of the books is like we have a bunch of used books and you open up the front page and it’s like

[8:25] to my little uh my little angel like here is that best of luck in 2007 grandma yeah all

[8:35] right well you know what why are my own books one of the best um books uh book experiences we had was one

[8:42] of those recordable books i don’t know if you’ve seen those or heard those but it’s just like a like a nursery rhyme or a fairy tale or whatever it

[8:50] could be like frosty the snowman i think is one of them and my mom so their grandmother recorded it gave it to them for christmas

[8:57] they’d love that thing because it’s her voice reading the story right so it’s a way for them and they they recognize it like they yeah they know

[9:04] that it’s grandma yeah yeah so that’s worked out well and it runs on light right so you open the the pages

[9:11] and there’s like little magnetic holes or something and they read off the light so it’s just like self-reading and uh

[9:17] it’s it’s i will warn you it’s loud it’s like that’s the grandma’s screaming maybe she’s just right to the mic um

[9:28] but uh we had to tape over the speaker so that uh it wasn’t as loud as i feel like cotton over top of it just to muffle and grandma a little bit

[9:41] hey kids here’s frosty yeah it’s like i love it like if your parents have gotten a fight like right

[9:47] before recording it yeah he’s like where’d you put this you always put that in the corner why would you do this

[9:55] so it’s just like on page six there’s this like epic parent argument like going through frosty lost his magic hat yeah here’s his magic hat it cost me

[10:03] half [Music] what is this thing what he can’t read to his own son oh leave them be they’re

[10:09] very busy or just constant like beer in the background frosty just slowly trails off but

[10:18] boxes of wine yeah that’s a good one so that that’s fine man the

[10:26] i hear you on the garage sale thing because like it’s just there’s just so much stuff and it’s like it’s you would think it’s almost like

[10:31] you get the impression that parents like buy are constantly spoiling and buying their kids stuff but it’s like by the time

[10:38] you’ve reached six months like it’s just such a mountain of stuff that people are loading on you yeah

[10:44] oh for sure and it just keeps coming like birthdays christmases sometimes we get easter stuff um

[10:50] easter police cars yeah please god no um so it’s just yeah it keep piled it piles up and when you have the first kid they’re spoiled usually well our son was

[11:02] spoiled and then they feel bad for the second so it’s like uber spoiled because now they they’re oh well he’s getting hand-me-downs and all this other

[11:11] stuff and you’re like yeah he is because there’s no more space just leaving everyone noticed great she doesn’t

[11:19] whatever he thinks it’s for him now that’s great he doesn’t know or care just put a little bow on it each time it’s a present

[11:29] yeah yeah yes before we get into it did you have any success gaming this week

[11:35] the only gaming i did was actually with my son we played skylanders which was an old game that we bought a while ago but we pulled it out again the

[11:44] toys yeah which it has such good quality um

[11:50] craftsmanship the animation in it the characters so you put like one of those like statuettes amiibos whatever they’re

[11:57] called on the portal and it knows and the portal talks to you um and then goes into the game and you see your guy there and it’s like it’s

[12:05] really well done like it’s clean graphics everything looks um well detailed and stuff my kid had a blast with it so

[12:12] we were doing that and then i’ve played um chrono trigger on my iphone to release it it released that one from your iphone i didn’t know that

[12:22] yeah i bought it a while ago but i never got around to uh playing it and i’ve never finished it as a kid

[12:29] so i remember having it i never finished it because i think final fantasy whatever came out at that time i was just so enthralled in that series chrono

[12:37] trigger never was finished so now’s my time geez i might uh it might be a good idea because i’m

[12:45] going to certainly need some sort of long form game as i’m sitting there yeah it’s a good one for four or five hours in the middle of

[12:51] night there’s no cheats though there’s no cheats that i’ve seen oh so that’d be easy it’d be easier to not

[12:58] have cheats with final fantasy both the font fans i played on the wait which one did i play hold on nine sorry i played nine on the phone i just didn’t

[13:06] have the appetite to grind and level up and yeah i just wanted to get through it so the sheets are perfect but i don’t know if

[13:14] i’d need sheets for that because i’ve never been through it before yeah it’s not really well it’s kind of grindable but not really like it’s it sets you up

[13:20] for the boss fights enough okay nice so it’s good it’s going to appreciate that much so yeah i mean this so

[13:28] it’s just it was a heck of a day in thinking about well just i think one of the greatest things my wife has done and i think i

[13:36] might have mentioned it on the last show is just she’s putting just put a photo of our last ultrasound

[13:43] of our new son oh yeah and it’s it’s this great like profile shot and it’s like very much the baby and just seeing it is so much

[13:53] it’s like that that’s a thing like that yeah because with the busyness but between work but

[14:00] also just taking care of the current sun which feels like monumental like it’s our entire life right it’s just like it’s it’s

[14:06] incredible how much he occupies you don’t think about it previously i mean you had your own personal time it was just the two of you so the baby the

[14:17] coming baby was just full focus like that’s all you kind of think about like all this little babies coming and here there’s moments where like oh

[14:24] yeah there’s another one like that it feels like i’ll go a week without even thinking about it and then i finally get it it’s like oh yeah

[14:32] number two right that’s happening soon huh yeah

[14:38] yeah it’s uh it’s different when number two comes along but i totally feel you in that way

[14:45] where it’s like hey we have one and one’s inbound and i kind of haven’t thought about that yet until

[14:52] the day of and then the day comes and i i don’t know you do adapt i will give you that like you just it i can’t

[15:00] imagine my life any different or like the memories of just having one are kind of they’re not fading but it’s like

[15:07] i can’t remember not having two running around and being pulled apart at everything all those memories have been beaten out of

[15:14] my head so i don’t even miss them and you’re kind of in the almost exact same boat too because you have a dog as

[15:19] well which is almost like a little fur baby running around needs its own love care walking pooping all sorts of other stuff so yeah

[15:28] doing all sorts of stuff just caused me more havoc yeah but yeah just like it’s

[15:35] you’re just not hit with it at all in the way just like not as present as the first

[15:43] one which yeah which in some ways feels sad but otherwise it just feels like survival because like this for this

[15:48] first kid is everything like he takes up like it’s from the moment he’s awake to the moment he goes to bed it’s just like

[15:55] that that’s your entire focus is this like little person yeah and what’s especially hard to imagine now is like

[16:04] dealing with him and then dealing with another one that is much more um needy that is much more how on earth do you

[16:13] can you possibly manage this one that exists that you know about yeah and then like another one comes in which you

[16:21] you’ve been through the infant thing and they take even further care like it’s even harder yeah so we kind of went through that

[16:29] same kind of scenario so i view the first one as like the tutorial right it’s a tutorial in a game

[16:38] you’re trying to use things like yeah you know well life’s not giving you instructions but you’re at least working things out you

[16:46] don’t know what to do you’re finding the button mapping on how to get your kid to sleep eat poop whatever when the second one comes along i think

[16:54] you’re just more of an expert so you have things lined up it’s not as impactful i will say like because you kind of get into that rhythm again

[17:03] you know where to put the diaper genie you know how to set up the the change they do um those things kind of came back

[17:12] naturally because it wasn’t too far out until we had our second so that comes flooding back as a huge like memory

[17:20] open the gates oh yeah all this stuff um but our first son was great with um eating sleeping like you conk out for

[17:29] 12 hours at a time like it was no like eventually it was no problem um our second was very much

[17:37] more needy he was uh crying a lot more we did find out that i think i’ve mentioned before that he did have like acid reflux so that was something that

[17:45] we didn’t figure out for a while um but he was disrupting his sleep um he wasn’t crawling when he was supposed to um all these other like milestones that

[17:56] was like slightly off so um he had his own little voice his own little personality so it was like we had to be on him a little bit more but then

[18:04] you have your other one running around trying to get into things because now they can climb stuff at this point right so

[18:11] you’re you’re gonna be fast and capable it’s like you develop like a spidey sense though it’s like a dad’s spidey sense like you

[18:19] can feel your kid trying to like pull down something off the counter behind you when you’re just dealing with number two so

[18:29] uh you do kind of gain that sense and multitask is like people mention that on resumes but like have two kids run around and that’s

[18:38] multitasking like there’s no other sense of the word it’s just you have everything going at once and trying to balance sleep with

[18:45] yourself too like that was the hard part what was that balancing sleep with just your own sleep because now you got baby number two

[18:54] interrupting you know mommy or daddy and then baby sorry man one second

[19:07] we might have a baby

[19:16] i wonder if i can play some elevator music you still have your headphones in

[19:37] we’ll see if he comes back one minute one second one hour one day

[19:46] maybe i should be quiet we’ll see it’s creepy talking like this

[20:13] one more minute it’s camp day today tim hortons camp day sponsor camp kids i can’t go to camp now a word from our other sponsor

[20:27] canada post how to buy some stamps today permanent so they don’t cost any money you know it’s like

[20:35] a dollar to mail a envelope this cost me like 10 that’s right here it’s ridiculous

[20:46] see what else we got here oh i got my son’s swimming report card look at that right here it says he passed

[20:59] it’s not too hard to fail it’s like kindergarten for swimming so there’s a class with other kids you know what they do in

[21:07] that class they sit in the shallow end and they kick their feet that’s all they do hey

[21:14] i could [Music]

[21:25] nothing too dire but something that did need to uh be talked about then the uh then the entire time i’m hearing you in

[21:32] my ear oh sorry i’m like running like take you out it’s like

[21:38] i can’t concentrate on both oh all right yeah sorry about that the uh let’s see where we did

[21:47] it’s good stuff happening talking to kids um multitasking yeah

[21:52] sleep get your sleep okay yeah so what do you mean with um like that concerns me because

[22:02] when we outnumbered the babies like we were able to do this like trade-off

[22:08] thing which was fantastic where like one sleeps and then you switch and then the other one goes i mean the hope and the prayer would be

[22:16] that um current little man’s sleep is going to be able to

[22:21] stay as steady as possible as it currently is as then he goes to bed and he stays out for the night yeah because there’s a bit of a possibility of us

[22:28] like switching back and forth but if this new one sleeps as badly as he did in that maybe he’s going to sleep from 4 am to

[22:37] or like 5 a.m until like 9 00 a.m the other the other one’s gonna wake up so like you don’t have that like yeah

[22:46] it’s like a continuous uh one-on-one defense yeah it’s just uh

[22:53] i’ll take the one that sleeps through the night it’s like well mine’s doing great how’s yours you know how you doing over there

[23:01] i’m getting nine hours of sleep i don’t know about you oh man but um you will you will because the

[23:07] first one they can be as loud as they want they can bang you know you can give them coins in a jar and they shake it and

[23:14] whatever like whatever keeps them happy when you have baby number one sleeping and baby number two wants to do that kind of stuff you’ll it’ll be a lot of

[23:22] oh that’s right shoot i’ll be like yeah when they turn into i guess like because i didn’t forget

[23:31] about that because like the immediate thing i’m thinking of is like the first i call it four to five months but then from you know six

[23:39] on yeah they’re a little bit more startled and stuff so you’re still you’re still fighting with a one-year-old

[23:45] yeah like a one like a the one-year-old and now a three-year-old yeah yeah damn that one-year-old just throw off the three

[23:53] yeah so if you have like parks nearby best friend ever in the summer you just get your oldest one out there just out of the

[24:02] house while baby sleeps uh winter time kind of like wherever the baby can go higher up and kind of out of the way

[24:12] of the older one i think we played with ours in the basement because it’s finished not like a cold cellar you may be way

[24:21] upstairs from the basement you wear that baby monitor as far as the range will go and then you play with that one there

[24:31] but it works out it’s fine like it’s not i’m not gonna scare ya i’m just saying it’s it’s different it’s not like the first one i don’t know

[24:39] just it feels like you know like we still don’t have it like you mentioned like you know you’re kind of an a quote-unquote expert now

[24:47] because like you’ve been through it and i am i guess hoping that a lot of the floods back but i’m just trying to think about

[24:53] um look it doesn’t feel like we have mastered this you know we’re just we’re still learning yeah how to parent

[25:01] for sure you’ll never have as a world when to throw like this whole new situation to throw it all off

[25:08] yeah you’ll never i never feel like i’m fully in control but i’m doing the best i can so i think it’s more hey

[25:16] i’m piloting this airplane

[25:22] still airborne haven’t crashed landed yet so uh yeah no you just kind of do your best because really it’s uh

[25:33] every every kid throws you a curveball in life that uh we had to deal with too so

[25:40] there’s even even if you don’t want to call like mastery of parenting because i think that’s a pretty accepted concept that nobody

[25:46] has ever a master at it you’re just kind of doing your best but even like with a lockdown of some type of schedule and not classic baby schedule but just like

[25:56] you know this is the this is our life now and this is like this is how we tend to like do things and like dinner here like weekends like

[26:04] you know like having some sort of like color almost like more orderly i guess i’m looking at like our scenario trying to think about this as

[26:13] okay we got we have our current scenario though not masters of it on lock like we feel good about all this yeah so now we will pile on a baby

[26:22] right it’s just of course it’s player two has entered the game oh yeah it’s like you’re handling the boss

[26:29] fight really well and then like a second boss comes in like compliments and feeds off one another not even my final form and just

[26:38] transforms into a new thing yeah that’s how it is it’s so it’s been yeah it’s been hard to reconcile like and i think like

[26:49] that that photo on the fridge has been one of the greatest things because it’s just every day i see it yeah you know and it’s

[26:59] not feels great like it’s really warm like uh that’s an amazing feeling and i’m really that really brings a lot of the

[27:04] excitement like how happy it’s going to be when it’s he’s here yeah but it just also brings forth all of

[27:12] the stuff i haven’t thought through yet like that i haven’t i feel so less mentally prepared than the first

[27:18] one like the first kid came and as scary as it all was like i was ready to get this going like it’s yeah this one it’s like i have not thought

[27:26] about this enough like i haven’t fortified my mind yeah i remember doing that with the first one i was cleaning the um

[27:37] you know the the screens in the windows something that you don’t ever really clean really like you might take them out but i was like windexing them

[27:46] cleaning them down scrubbing all the inside of the frames because they don’t want like any germs in the house that was the first child the second

[27:52] child was like you know i should do some laundry just you know get ready and stuff and that was we had a scheduled um c-section so we knew when

[28:01] the baby was gonna pop it was just a matter of preparing somewhat of cleaning the room so if people came over they weren’t walking through

[28:10] mounds of toys and clothes so a little different so what was the point when so the the infant and the two-year-old

[28:20] for myself seems especially terrifying um can you recall like a moment when it and i think with my current sound like

[28:29] that like as of now like him approaching two like this feels like he’s chaos with legs it’s still like nuts but it’s still

[28:38] i don’t call manageable isn’t the right word but it’s just like you’re you can kind of work you’re starting to be able to work with him

[28:44] you know what i mean like he’ll kind of walk on his own maybe you can ask him to do something he’ll start to understand and do that thing

[28:50] yeah he’s in his routine which goes like really smoothly so call it he’s more manageable almost like what so what was the point for you when like it clicked

[28:59] for the two of them where it’s just like okay now we’re now

[29:05] yeah you’ve said um i’ll say and not to scare you but ever um i think when my oldest son um when he

[29:13] was four and my youngest was about 18 months around there 15 18 months um just because

[29:21] four years he was completely toilet trained he was sleeping through the night like dry beds everything um could get in the car put the buckles

[29:31] on himself um to the point where you know you just tighten it a little bit and then that’s a lot less work for you to take care of

[29:38] the 15 18 month old where you should be doing you know the diaper changes the car seat stuff

[29:45] all the other stuff that comes along with it it was just that freedom opened up again and you’re like hey this i remember this

[29:52] feeling i did this the first time i don’t feel so outnumbered here and like now being six and four almost seven and four

[30:01] uh it’s great like of course there’s different challenges and we have our own you know um hard times but it’s it’s different

[30:09] they’re self-sustaining and it’s not like handling them at every moment trying to feed them because you know they won’t

[30:17] live anymore if you don’t shove it down the throats um it’s more about stopping them from eating you know and

[30:23] setting different rules and yeah rope man rules and discipline and like no more baby gates like that was like a

[30:31] freedom of oh my god i never want to see baby gate again oh yeah baby gates are crying yeah just adult annoyances yeah but

[30:42] although i’m always like uh it’s funny it is interesting how [Music]

[30:49] frequently we don’t put it up given our experience mm-hmm he has a great first he has great like great balance and great like strengths

[30:57] like walk himself down up and down the stairs and otherwise he seems to respect the stairs and that he’s not supposed to go near them yeah

[31:04] but given the fact that we obviously had an awful scare where he went down the stairs like you think i would have

[31:11] bolted it but somehow like it just it’s kind of like mellowed out in that sense and like it’s still it i catch myself

[31:18] being quite terrified when he starts to get close and like we’re still right on them but uh yeah yeah baby gates we definitely gotta and

[31:25] and really baby gates aren’t when the second comes it’s not for it’s not for safety anymore it’s for containment like

[31:32] so when you’re dealing with you know infant baby and you have a two-year-old run around you want them in the same room with you because like you can’t run

[31:42] out there when you know your wife’s breastfeeding or you’re with the bottle or whatever and changing the diaper it’s it’s containment you need them in the

[31:49] same you need eyesight so we’re going to get the corral version where it’s just like the circle of like netting that keeps with that one spot

[31:59] like that rugrats cartoon where they’re all in that like a little free-range kind of cage and they just had their own conversations

[32:07] yeah and otherwise man like just from the gaming side it’s just i don’t know this is probably it like i’m just trying

[32:16] to i’m trying to imagine like how like when on earth am i gonna touch a game again after like six months eight

[32:25] months a year oh it could be coming up soon i think um well when my son was three a little bit i might be remembering that wrong maybe

[32:33] three and a half it was a little mario kart in there at least i showed it to him and he like liked looking at it gave him a fake controller

[32:42] so if player two yeah yeah he gets to stay up a little bit later you know when baby goes to sleep he’s up a little bit until

[32:50] his bedtime so you could [Music] see how that works i don’t know but it will be a little bit before you get back

[32:57] into it i think yeah hey are you angling for the vr set again i’m not i’m not saying anything listen i mean you got two kids now you

[33:05] can’t what’s really listen let me give you advice about the two kids never have your eyes obscured

[33:14] by anything and in fact you should probably remove anything from your house that would produce you know yeah or you know give

[33:21] it to someone you talk to on a weekly basis it’s a great idea i’m not even kidding like for the first

[33:29] uh first couple months like it might not be the worst idea i’m trying to imagine like hop again at least two but

[33:36] you’d have to accept the joy and the heartbreak when it arrives and then it disappears

[33:43] again yeah yeah you’re like oh my god no thank you but actually like a couple last last times i touched it i had uh turned

[33:52] off like i just hadn’t been turning on the tv and it had me thinking like what if i just

[33:57] brought it into my room like the bedroom no i was thinking the other way where you have the tv running like a kids show

[34:03] and you’re just in the vr oh that would be good as long as you and if you know hey he’s how they’re

[34:11] just gonna like volleyball spike the thing off my face or b i’m gonna go slamming him off of the

[34:18] couch like once i’m trying to like dodge something just like there’s no way that ends properly he maybe even consider like maybe his um

[34:27] like the logic isn’t quite there yet so when you put on the vr headset he’s like where did your head go what are you doing

[34:33] who is this who is this man light’s staring at me you put googly eyes in the front oh my god the light’s alone you know like he’s

[34:40] going to want to play with it oh yeah probably put the thing on to ruin his eyesight expensive yeah

[34:48] i don’t know why doc is cross-eyed no idea so the um yeah thanks for the uh the events

[34:55] session but the yeah i think it helps give us some confidence and uh doesn’t scare gavin is he ever considers it yeah

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